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Monday, April 22, 2013

Solo Travel in Italy


Solo Travel In Italy


I usually post solo travel ‘deals’ on a separate blog but Solo Travel In Italy some challenges I shall add to this blog as well.

Italy may have more travelers than many other countries in Europe.   After traveling there for years and for 4 to 6 weeks at a time, I fully understand why.
With all those ‘tourists’ being a traveler has some challenges.   

I never thought it was ‘odd’ to travel solo.  I am solo but not sad.  I travel solo because I have no friends who would EVER travel in the style I do.   And the one  perception I continue to receive is that only gay people travel solo.  What?    During my 3 month sabbatical I became friends with two lovely much younger woman who I met at the local Internet café.  While having dinner early in our friendship the both agreed that ‘no Italian woman would this’.  I was VERY surprised.   Apparently it may not have been socially unacceptable but solo travel was NOT something an Italian woman would do…..

There are endless benefits to solo travel but I want to cover a few of the ‘challenges’ solo travel in Italy may present:
1.  With the crowds of tourists in Italy it can be difficult to visit ‘tourist spots’ solo.    Tour buses do not know what to do with a solo.  Other travelers do not want to sit with a solo person….
2.  Reaction of Italians that solo travel is ‘odd’.   In Italy the family has great importance.  It may not occur to Italians to go off by themselves and travel. 
3.  Economics:  Italy as other countries are in an economic situation.   A solo traveler may be perceived as wealthy.    On one trip I wanted to compare living costs in Italy with the USA and as I compared the salaries with the USA, I understood this misconception.   Housing is expensive in Italy and this may be another reason family members remain at ‘home’ until they marry.
4.  Travel in Italy during tourist season means crowds on buses and trains.  Solo travel means you have no one to ‘watch your bags’ while you use the WC or even go to an ATM.
One year, before ATM’s were on each corner, I could not enter the money exchange at the Rome termini because they used a revolving door and my bag would not fit in the door!
5.  You spend more time planning and organizing solo, no one to share the work.
6.  For me dining is the hardest part of solo travel anywhere but the USA.  Here in the USA we have so many casual restaurants and my favorite, diners, that you are mostly unnoticed.  The disadvantage is you are unnoticed in some restaurants and service is ‘different’.  I understand the tip will be less than a couple, but I also don’t take up as much time at the table.

In Italy eating is VERY important.  Going to diner is the entertainment for the evening often taking hours.   I only remember seeing one other solo diner in a restaurant in Florence.  And they put us next to each other.   I have had waiters look at me with pity and surprise that I am sitting alone.    Why do people assume solo is sad?

While these may be some challenges to solo travel, some of the perks in Italy:
vendors in markets will often chat with you
you can stroll the town center without dragging a reluctant companion or child with you.
You can often observe without being noticed….take a peek into daily life.

4 comments:

  1. I normally travel to friends and have been thinking of travelling more around the rest of Europe on my own. Glad to have bumped into your post, it's given me things to think about. Thanks

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    1. i am surprised you found me, this was part of the a to z blogging challenge and 1. would have normally had photos 2. been posted on my new solo travel site.
      there are MILLIONS of solo travelers and some great blogs that cater to us.... i am focusing on mature solo travel... yes i have to take fewer trips because i wont sleep on someones couch but i have found great deals for apts, ensuite roons in convent/hotels and am now looking at short stays in london,
      where do you like to travel? beach, cities, foreign countries????
      glad to send you links and info if you are interested, shall be on land until 5/3 then off on a 3 week sail....best bang for the buck but the 2 x 2's can be difficult to manage.... send an email link and shall be happy to share

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  2. I'd want to have company on any trip I'm taking abroad and tours are way more interesting with others along for the ride.

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    1. true and there are some interesting tour available, i just will not get on a bus, leave me to walk the entire town

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